When I writed down the topic, I hoped that my parents can read it some day, and if it can
eliminate the endless argue that caused by generation gap between us, It will be the best thing in my life.
My grandfather was a landowner, at the same time, he was a teacher. My grandmother was died when my father was very young. My father was born with a high cap of the landowner’s son，you never know what landowner and his son were treated at that time if you were not a landowner or the son of a landowner。I can image that my father had a hard and miserable childhood.
In 1976, when my father was 25 years old, our dear Chairman Mao was died. He said that it is the best news that he had heard in his life, Because my father could uplift his head from now on. Two years later, my father got married. My mother told me many times that they had nothing but a bed when they married. Luckly, My father was good at doing small business that made my family richer compared with others. My father kept hard working and treated money as his blood, In order to prove to the people who had treated him barbarously that landowner’s son will be live a better life than them. I knew my father’s hardship during his youth through hundreds of stories told by my mother.
I was born in 1979. In the year our Christ Xiao-Ping Deng came to the edge of South China and drew a round. After that all people in China knew what reformation was and what opening was. People became richer and richer.Life was lived from better to better.
I was more lucky than my father. I had a happly childhood, and had the chance to receive a good education.I was used to spending all my money if I like. My character was against for my father’s. And now, we lived together. We tried to persuade each other. Of course, we failed. I had hoped to give my parents a happly life during their old age. But now, he worked in a supermarket as a clean man. I used to keep my icebox full, then he always buy some bad fruits at a low price.How could I bear the bad friuts to my young daughter. I always took myself as a good man with filial piety. I knew that my parents like eating mango, they abused me after I bought.
They abused me everyday, the only topic was that I spent too muh money. In fact, I have changed a lot after lived with them. Before, I used up all my money. And now, I used up half of them.
Who can told me that through which way can eliminate the endless argue that caused by generation gap between us?